Your child is an introvert if you positively nod your head while answering the following question...........        

Does your child prefer sitting alone rather than jumping around as kids are expected to? Does he refrain from expressing his feeling? Does he feel more comfortable with books rather than with people? Thinks before taking action?         

There is nothing to worry in such a case, you just need to work gently towards helping your child grow into a balanced personality . An introvert is perfectly normal. Being introvert is a behavioral trail and in no case a sign of abnormality. Famous names like Bill Gates, Albert Einstein and Steven Spielberg are known to be introverts and highly successful. Respect your child's personality rather than condemning him for being an introvert.

Don't blame yourself: Don't hold yourself responsible for not having done enough to develop your child's social skills. Introversion may also be genetic.Yes, environment does make a difference but it's how you react to the introversion of your child, which will make all the difference. So, get out of the guilt and move on.

Don't try to change an introvert: If you begin to understand that there is nothing wrong in being an introvert, then your focus will not be on how to change the child but on how to give shape to his likes and dislikes. Don't push the child too much otherwise he'll resist it and make it worse for you as well as him.

Give direction to his abilities: Encourage your child to follow his interests. For example, if he loves to read, take him for reading sessions. Gradually ask him to read stories aloud to his group of friends. Appreciation and acceptance will boost his self esteem and make him more comfortable to make friends. Take him to the park, to the places of his friends and involve him in group activities.

Never condemn a child for being an introvert: When you are consciously making an effort to help your child channelise his likes and dislikes, you cannot expect instant results. Be patient and never negate a child asking him "Why can't you be like normal children?". Never be sarcastic.

Every parent visualizes a child who would be expressive, is gregarious and has lots of friends. But if your child happens to be a little different, you should not be disappointed. Your precious child will still grow up to be happy and successful provided you love and respect him for what he is.